I loved this quote and I hope all of those women out there who are waiting for Mr. Right or think they have found him keep this in mind. Don't settle Im not saying the one you found may not be good but make sure he is the best one, and that he treats you like he should. Ladies we deserve the best, and we are so special if the man doesn't treat you as such then don't waste your time with him. Work on continuing to improve your self and make you better. The right one will come along, at the proper time. 

It is a natural need we as people have to feel accepted and Loved. I hope that we can all remember this sometimes we treat others better then our own family. We need to love one another and find the Good in everyone. I hope that we can all encourage our families and friends and take the time to tell them how much we do care for, and Love them. One never knows how much time they may have on earth. Take the time now to share how you feel about your loved ones with them. Not just because it's getting close to christmas but always. Always be considerate and brush off the bad and forgive quickly. Keep the Golden rule. Treat others like you would want to be treated. 
Below is a quote by David A. Bednar

"Feeling the security and constancy of love from a spouse, a parent, or a child is a rich blessing. Such love nurtures and sustains faith in God. Such love is a source of strength and casts out fear (see 1 John 4:18). Such love is the desire of every human soul.”
- David A. Bednar

children are a gift form God, and we are not perfect but we should try our best and better oursevels each day. we may not be abel to control our children sometimes but we do have control over ourselves. i hope that if we have children or if we are planning on having children that we remember to be cautious in how we treat them. when they do something they are not supposed to are we quick to yell at them and punish. 
I hope instead we can teach them. Teach them right, and wrong and let them decide what to do. i hope as parents we can control our selves and not jump to yelling and being angry or the opposite as well. i hope we are not quick to just let things slide. We need to have that happy medium, and make sure that our children know that if we say something we will go through with it. If we don't they have not learned anything. They just know that can do it again, and get away with it. 
I hope we can teach our kids what a well put together adult looks like, and set a good example. It all starts with us after all. We are what our child sees and i hope we can be some that they look up to. i hope we can teach with love and by the proper example. 

We are bombarded daily in the media with things that can affect our standers and what we think is important. Family is the main thing we should be reaching for, and the media is attempting to change the views of what should be impotent. From the world and medias stand points they say kids can wait, marriage isn't important just do what you want, and same sex marriage starting to be more excepted.
 We need to return to the knowledge of what is important and not let the media or others change our views. We can live in the world but not of it. We all know deep down what is important, what true happiness feels like. Even though there probably are times of trial if we seek after a marriage and forming a family we will be much happier. 
Even though the world may bombard us with there views may we stand for what is right and the importance of a Family. 

The question I have for all of us is what good qualities can we find in others. 
do you know someone who is kind, compassionate, honest, hardworking, and any other great qualities like that?
I found this quote that I would love to share with all of you. Keep in mind when reading it. Do i ever do this do I treat my friends better then my family. I know growing up sometimes I did this. In the End my family usually lasted a little longer then some of my friends. Just know that nice matters. 
Quote: 

Helping the family, and oneself. 
I would just like to touch on the importance of being Positive, and Happy. I know that sometimes life may be hard, but we must remember that It's not what happens to us in life, but its how we react to life that matters. If we decidscide now to think positively about others and our ownselves it can make a huge difference. Also we must life others up around us, and be that good example and let others know how important and loved they are. Family and friends let them know that they are special and have great potential.  
Some ideas to help one think positively is posting inspirational quotes, and things you love about yourself on posits on the mirror so you can see these an read them to yourself as you look in the mirror. With time I hope you believe the positive things that you right about yourself, and know how great you are. 

Just like this one pink post it. Remember to be different and be you. Be a pink post it in a sea of yellow ones. Be you and "be your own kind of beautiful" (unknown)

This last week my Grandma had a heat attack. She is only 66 years old, and however she has been living with some health problems for a while. I have never heard my Grandma complain, and she always is so happy. My Grandma went into code blue, and she was on life support there for a couple days. We were not sure what was going to happen to her, and we would often pray and ask that the Lords will be done, and that whatever happens that it was best for My Grandma. 

Thankfully my Grandma has gotten better and isn't on the life support now, however she is still having hard time breathing and she is still recuperating form everything. She does still have her mind though, and that was such a blessing. After they took the ventilator out she was able to say our names, however her throat is still very sore, and she still has a ways to come 

I am so thankful for this trial in my life, and I am so thankful for the Opportunity I had to talk to my Grandma again. I was able to tell her how much I love her. Another thing I am thankful for is that it has brought our family closer. I will keep everyone posted about my grandma I hope every one remembers to cherish there family. Not just around the Holidays, but always. 

Happy Thanksgiving!! 

This photo is a photo of my Dad. He truly is a great man and such a hard worker. Even when life throws him trials he still does all he can to provide and for his family. I love my Dad so much, and I am so very thankful for all he does for all of his kids.

The Importance of a Fathers! They should be a provider a protector, and a friend to their children, and their wife. The Lord  commands men to cleave unto their wife's. I know I am only 21 and still living the fun single college life. However I have been learning about the importance of finding a good future Husband, and not settling. Making sure that he can provide for me, and that he will work hard and be a good dad for my future kids. 

There was a video I found that shows a father cheering with his daughter. I posted the link it's so cute I hope everyone watches it, and that it can remind Fathers everywhere to be there for their children, and be involved with them.  _

Be Thankful 
Happy Thanks Giving! This thanksgiving was a hard one for my whole family. My Grandma had a heart attack, and it has kinda of been an emotional Roller Coster ride. The doctors were able to bring her back to life, and she was on life support there for a while. She came to and we were able to tell her we love her and talk to her agin. However her health turned again, and we are not sure what may happen. 
My Grandma loves the Holidays, and we dedicated this Turkey day to her. She was such a great cook, and always so Happy. She has lived with a lot of pain, the last few years, and she has a lot of health problems. However I never did hear her complain, and you could always see her smiling. 
In this time of hardship we as a family did what grandam would do. We put on a smile and cooked a fabulous dinner. We then went around the table before we ate and said things we loved about our  grandma.  We are all truly blessed and we need to remember how may blessings are in our lives. We must be thankful and find the positive in life all the time. 

I have learned from reading some of Elder Oaks talks lately that we really need to trust not only in the will of the Lord but in his timing. 
This includes with marriage some may be wondering where is my eternal companion. But we must just focus on loving the Lord, and trust him. This is harder then we think we just need to be faithful, and prepare ourselves for when we do have a family. We must do our best to be more like him and grow in every way possible. 
If we serve others and our God we can do great things we can learn many things during the single times in our lives. We really should learn, grow, and have fun during this time. We need to be happy, and enjoy ourselves. i also strongly encourage praying and asking the Lord what he would have us do. come unto god, and ask what his will for us is. 
 (His will be done for his ways are righteousness forever) 2 Nephi chapter 1